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Thursday, April 30, 2009

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Hot Topics: Noel Biderman, owner of an extramarital affair website



Posted at 4/30/2009 11:00:00 AM
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36 comments:

  1. Adam Lewis4/30/09, 12:50 PM

    Luv Whoopi and Joy's laughs at Barbara's comments at 1:24

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  2. Anonymous4/30/09, 1:24 PM

    "I'm a pimp!"


    hahahaha.

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  3. Anonymous4/30/09, 1:29 PM

    Infidelity is like drugs--it's bad, it hurts relationships...but "Just Say No" isn't a realistic position. The View can't just boo infidelity away.

    Of course the goal is a single monogamous marriage, but that's not how it works out for MOST people. Better to do it on a protected site.

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  4. Anonymous4/30/09, 1:43 PM

    i like how the audience boo it was so funny i could not watch the whole clip it looked like the audience wanted to come down from there seat and beat him up i bet you during the commerical break they got in trouble for that and i know wooppi aint talking about let the man speak this is the view when ann coulter came on they would not let her say two words they were interupting here every time she speak and i like what eh say at the end now that was funny that man looked dumb i hope barabra dont put people like that on the show

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  5. Anonymous4/30/09, 1:46 PM

    At least it looks nicer than OnlineBootyCall.com. Those 1am commercials are so stupid. Also, they asked who is Ashley Madison???

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  6. Anonymous4/30/09, 1:46 PM

    What he said about other countries that have higher rates of people cheating and less divorce, like Japan, that isn't saying anything. Cheating doesn't improve the relationship between partners, it allows one person to keep face while satisfying his/her sexual urges. In Japan especially, things are all about keeping face and not doing anything considered strange or weird. Divorce is considered a bit strange so they often cheat to keep up that front of being a successful, married, man or woman.

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  7. texasmama1014/30/09, 2:00 PM

    this is stupid all i have to say
    but hey man makes the world go round
    to each thier own

    poor guy

    BTW LESTER i love your add "unsatisfied married women" hee hee

    *big grin* i dont think liz was right to make that closing comment to imply he doesnt take care of his family or whatver that was rude
    i mean hey she doesnt know shit about him and his wife

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  8. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:03 PM

    Hmm.. it's a "protected site" until somebody signs up who has alternative motives than to have an affair with other people in the community... or once its publicity picks up the cases of stalking, etc come out into the open and each one is colored with the fact that their married and are stalking another married person.. just say hello to guaranteed future chaos. OH, and then there's the STD's that are no doubt going to surge in this online community of married folk.. woo-hoo!! Glad we covered all that moral high ground, Bitsy, instead of focusing on the realistic problems that are gonna surface.. ugh.

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  9. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:29 PM

    I didn't say a protected site would prevent any crime or STD from ever happening at any time in the future. I said it's better than a free, 100% anonymous, non-protected site. And what are you talking about future chaos? This site already has millions of subscribers and we're all still alive.

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  10. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:30 PM

    Wow, the audience is so fucking stupid. I bet most of them have had affairs at one point or another. Most everyone cheats, or gets cheated on. People would cheat without this website, too so they really need to get the hell over it. I bet Elisabeth's husband fucks other women all the time. Who could blame him?

    People have needs, welcome to life.

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  11. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:34 PM

    Why not just create a site for married people who FEEL like cheating, but can chat with each other anonymously, share their stories and get advice from people in the same position? Alot of couples who are happy with everything except their sex life, or rather lack thereof, haven't even talked about it with their partners! Why is it that some people find it so easy to cheat, but so hard to simply talk about an issue?

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  12. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:43 PM

    "Welcome to life"??

    umm more like welcome to YOUR life.
    a very sad, screwed up one.

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  13. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:48 PM

    The additional publicity he's getting from the View is probably going to boost his site's popularity considering this site hasn't been noted in any major news source I've seen/read. Likely, no one's taken any critical interest in its participants, either. His site could be a big hit after this, but then people are going to get curious about what makes these people tick and look for news stories about 'abnormal' participation in the site. Considering these people probably want to keep their business on the down-low for one reason or another, outting them and telling their stories is going to turn into a scandalous free-for-all. Who is going to really have any qualms about broadcasting their indescretions to anyone and everyone??

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  14. Anonymous4/30/09, 2:57 PM

    People having affairs occur more often than thought of. I know NUMEROUS people who have cheated on their spouse, mostly due to the fact they are away from them for long periods of time, but that doesn't make cheating on one's wife, husband, or partner right. It makes it dead wrong.

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  15. Anonymous4/30/09, 3:03 PM

    Sooooo, a credit card might be the only thing standing between me and finding out that my spouse is cheating? Wow, just wow.

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  16. Madison Grace4/30/09, 3:03 PM

    Barbara has admitted having an affair with a married man. She wrote about it in her book.

    I'm just wondering: do you think that Whoopi isn't that comfortable with the lack of open-mindedness on the show? She looks like she could walk any minute. I might not agree with extra-marital affairs (like many people) but it doesn't mean we shouldn't know about the website. I like knowing what's out there. Sometimes, I think that the ladies of the View may be just a little too conservative for Whoopi. What do you think? Will she leave now that she can fly again and maybe make more movies?

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  17. Hieu4/30/09, 3:04 PM

    Elisabeth is actually right it is "Chuck E Cheese for CHEATERS"

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  18. Anonymous4/30/09, 3:58 PM

    Whoopi's always had a 'live and let live' attitude about practically everything that doesn't affect her directly. I don't even know if we can say that she's, personally, more or less conservative than anyone except Elisabeth. She might be getting irritated by being bombarded by other people's opinions mostly because they're repetative.. not so much that they're different from her own. Seriously, why would she care if other people are using the site? She's not married. Only thing I can think she'd feel on the subject would be sorry for the people who *might* be being lied to by their spouses.

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  19. Anonymous4/30/09, 4:00 PM

    Joy was right he is a pimp. When I heard the ads on the radio a few weeks ago I thought it was a joke. WoW! there is a market for everything.

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  20. Unknown4/30/09, 4:16 PM

    It's so easy to meet married men/women anyway! whether it's online, in a bar, at the mall, restaurant, your own job! who cares about this website, it's nothing new! If your husband or wife is going to or wants to cheat on you, this site will not make or break that decision! You're clueless if you think otherwise. Couples really need to check what's going on in their own household, fix that first, before getting all crazy about the temptations in the outside world! We all know right from wrong! If it's not this website, it's the sexy new hire in the workplace..work on your marriage!

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  21. Anonymous4/30/09, 4:17 PM

    Science deals with the reality of what is, not what we believe life should be like. As someone who has studied human sociology, we are not a monogamous species. A true belief in total monogamy, if you study it, has only occurred in the past 50 years. In the 1890 to the 1940, some married women were whoring themselves for money to support their family (with the father's knowledge btw), and men who went away to work to support the family went to whore houses to deal with their biological sexual urges. You may have a family with your spouse, but you may not want to have sex with them... it's human nature.

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  22. Anonymous4/30/09, 6:33 PM

    If you dont want to have sex with your spouse then why get married to say its in our nature to cheat is nothing more than bullony I have been married never even thought about it once. People cheat because they are selfish jerks and jerketts if your going to go outside the realtionship I think personaly the other person should be made aware of its not a very humane thing to jeopardize another persons life and health for your lack of self control. Lets be real now mr science guy there is one reason for cheating its the "thrill" of the act once the other person is made aware of the cheating and your caught with your hand in the cookie jar most loose intrest in the person their having an affair with... why you may ask because the "thrill" is gone and now one must make a choice of the partner in life leaving and/or making a commitment with the other person their cheating with now demands a relationship either way your screwed one will fall apart without therapy eventualy, due to lack of trust the other if you decide to move forward with said person will be based on distrust. No science degree needed buddy just plain ole life experience. Do me a favor... we are not in 1890 or 1940 were in what I would like to think in a more evelutionized society... ya bloody ape!

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  23. Anonymous4/30/09, 7:21 PM

    I was very glad Whoopi put the audience in their place, they were coming off as very rude and close minded by not letting this guy speak. Its this close mindedness that causes destruction in marriages. Realistically, monogamy is not ideal for everyone and there are actually couples who have open marriages successfully as long as there is an understanding between the two of them. I don't agree with being unfaithful to your partner or seeking out someone else without your partner's consent but some of what this guy was talking about is true and if you think your spouse would never cheat or would even think about cheating then you are a bit delusional. It could happen to anyone, the main goal in a relationship is to have open communication and if sexually a couple is starting to lack chemistry it would be wise to seek out other options together, but unfortunately most people especially women would be too closed off to consider anything else and prefer to turn a blind eye to their situation which causes men to stray.

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  24. JR4/30/09, 7:29 PM

    I don't follow the logic that this guy is a pimp. Presumably this involves two consenting adults who both know very well what they are doing and getting themselves into. Who then is being pimped out in this situation? If it wasn't happening on his website it would and is happening other places online such as Craigslist. We have to stop pretending that this isn't happening and try figuring out why it's happening. Everyone should be looking at themselves and their relationships first before judging others.

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  25. crazykathat14/30/09, 8:39 PM

    This guy is such a loser.

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  26. Anonymous4/30/09, 8:57 PM

    Wow, they were so judgemental! Barbara has no place to say, "Oh your kids must be so proud." oh so sarcastically. Is Jackie proud that YOU Barbara Walters had an affair with a married politician in YOUR heyday?????!!!! Elisabeth should consider herself very lucky if her husband doesn't cheat. He must have a very high tolerance for pain and annoying high pitched voices.

    I do not agree with infidelity but those women should not act as if they are above it, especially Barbara Walters!!

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  27. Anonymous4/30/09, 9:25 PM

    Why bring on a guest to just boo and judge? Is this the Tyra Bank Show or Maury?

    I don't agree with his view but understand where he is coming from that monogamy is but on the pedastol and sometimes there are SOME people who cannot be monogamous. But both partners should know.

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  28. From Sweden4/30/09, 10:20 PM

    Well. If you can't be in a monogamy. Dont get married. You can't have it both ways

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  29. Anonymous4/30/09, 11:19 PM

    What I don't get is how Barbara can go on the attack or criticize the website.

    Didn't she have an affair? Umm yep...
    But oh she had it the old fashioned way so I guess that's alright. In my opinion, she can't say one thing about this site. Even if she regrets having an affair now, she still did it. So she can't go after other people who go on the site to have an affair.

    I'm glad some other people that commented on here noticed that to.

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  30. Anonymous5/1/09, 6:54 AM

    Excuse me.......EVERYONE LOTS of people have open marriages. To each his own. This site is not going to make anyone cheat no more than a club or bar would. Its called being honest, and if people in America were not ALWAYS pressured into marriage like they are, this site would not even exist. Also, i love how when he said that monogamy isnt natural people booed. When in fact he is correct lol. But im sure they know more than him because the audience at the view do all tend to have the Ph.D's in Animal Bio lol

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  31. Anonymous5/1/09, 11:32 AM

    i think people here are confusing "open marriages" and having an "affair."


    They are NOT the same thing...

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  32. Anonymous5/1/09, 11:32 AM

    I agree with him. I mean, this show is the same show in which women joke about not wanting to have sex with their partners. Joy just said the other day that if she had to choose between a last meal and sex before she died, she would choose the meal. Whoopi said in a show that married women shouldn't feel like they have to have sex often(i agree kinda) if at all if they dont want to with their partners. Liz puts out so often, it doesnt even matter. On and on. Lets ne honest, men OFTEN think about cheating when the women in their life stop wanting to put out. Now, most women here are probably gonna say: "why should i have to put out blah blah blah! he should just be faithful." BUT in reality, if you want to hold expectations for your husband, then you need to allow him to hold you to expectations(sex more than once or twice a month). Remember the lady who had sex with her husband everyday day for a year, and she realized that the relationship was lacking intimacy because she was dodging her husbands sexual needs? She said it saved her marriage. When her husband was interviewed he said that although he didnt cheat, he could easily see why so many men do. WOW! look that story up

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  33. Anonymous5/1/09, 4:14 PM

    Isn't open marriages more common in the gay community?I have never heard of open marriages in the straight community. I am talking about open marriages NOT secret affairs.

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  34. Sara5/1/09, 5:08 PM

    I don't get the booing either. What the man says is exactly right. Monogamy is just not a part of who we are. We all have urges and needs that cannot possibly, as multifaceted people, be satisfied by one person. For all anyone knows, the people who go to this site are in open marriages and these "affairs" are just part of their relationship. And NO open marriages are not just in the gay community, don't be ignorant. More than half of the married couples I know are in open marriages and they are all straight and have straight extramarital affairs. And moreso, these people have closer and better relationships than the so-called monogamous married couples. They have far fewer secrets and are much more open in communicating with each other, also cuts down on the feelings of guilt for actually being naturally attracted to someone other than your spouse.

    I hate Elizabeth for what she said to this man about his family. What a bitch.

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  35. Anonymous5/2/09, 11:14 PM

    Monogamy IS part of who we are... If you are going to study sociology and stating it is'nt then you are leaving out some *key* data to fit an agenda.

    Monogamy is the ideal environment period. It is stability, satisfaction with one's partner and a consistence for the product of said union, the offspring, hence the future generation. So some ppl are unethical? Do we then change the definition of marriage for this? If you are in an open relationship you are not in a monogamus partnership. Sex is the deal breaker. Sex is what sets your partner apart from the same type of deep commitment you have with friends and family! You want to play the field? Don't get married/live together/call someone your partner. There is a word for this... Single!

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  36. Anonymous5/11/09, 12:15 AM

    single sounds great! who wants to marry into misery. i see so many miserable married men putting up with wives...

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